If......Friend

If were not able to inspire, motivate, uplift each other then what kind of friend are u

If my kids dont know u by ur name then ur not a friend eg. Kids Mommy going out with Leslie..Kids response to me Who's that???

If my pocketbook not safe around u then ur not a friend.

If Im goin to be nervous with u around my man...then HELLS no ur not a friend #gofigure

If u cant come to my house and vice versa then ur not a friend

If u borrow my ride and bring it back on E...then ur a THOUGHTLESS friend

                    If there is a simple disagreement/misunderstanding then communication stops with one of us asking, "damnm what happened". Then u was not a REAL friend.

But if I can count on u thru thick and thin, be that listening ear that also offers up unbias criticism when needs be. I will cherish u as a FRIEND!!

BRIGHTER DAYS ARE AHEAD....THX FOR BLESSINGS

10 Yrs ago was my son Javon's (now 14) last chemo @ Johns Hopkins Hospital, he was diagnosed with Wilms tumor/ at the tender age of 2...that story in itself would have to come at a later date. In February of this yr a girlfriend of mine 4 yr old daughter was diagnosed with the same cancer which has made my son Javon silently start worrying about his health. He even asked me if it wasn't time for him to get a chk-up which I scheduled along with his annual chest X-ray.


Dr. Friedman gave us the good news stating that his Xray showed no signs of tumors and from here on out he would not need anymore nor CT scans...just his regular chk ups and follow ups to show any signs of damage from the chemo

Oh he had a smile on his face, then the doctor gave him a list of activities to stay away from: boxing, tackle football, sky diving, bungee cord diving...poor doctor don't even know that the boy is not like other teen boys (meaning no sort of adventure).

This goes to show that having faith and prayer from all angles do work!! he had all of these inside of him also along with family & friends. just had a flashback of him standing in church and testifying when he was only 10yrs old.

Isa 44:3

For I will pour water upon him that is thirsty, and floods upon the dry ground: I will pour my spirit upon thy seed, and my blessing upon thine offspring

Now to get him more focused on his school work and not thinking he's goin to the NBA. He lives, eat, sleep and dreams of b-ball.

The act of revenge....how far is to far

On 7/11 in Garden Grove, California a 47yr old woman drugged her estranged husband tied him to the bed, cut off his penis with a large knife and then threw it down a garbage disposal and turned it on!! She called 911 to report a medical emergency and confessed to the crime at hand. Its not like she had a choice the husband woke up and saw her attacking him with the 10 inch blade

I can only imagine what lead her to take such drastic measures...but my gosh there has to be some sort of cut off (pun intended) where u snap bk to reality and just leave the situation. I know easier said than done.